Monday, April 20, 2015

Will this never change?!


Satisfaction is a word that is frequently used by all of us, but not in the positive sense. No one willingly expresses satisfaction in anything, let alone their own decisions. That is what life has come to these days. Dissatisfaction in the fields of academics, profession, and even lifestyle are too common, and it has had a direct impact on the number of people in need of psycological help.
What exactly is the reason that has led to all of this? Until the sudden increase in the usage of technology, people had relatively less matters to worry about. Stress related to work, studies or family matters was all that had to be bothered about. But now, all that has changed drastically. Facebook and Watsapp have taken over the minds of people, irrespective of age. People now prefer to spend time with friends and family 'online', rather than face to face and in the real world.
Being a girl, the idea of marriage has been hung over my head by my parents some time back. But I am not ready. I need to discover who I am, before I become someone else's. Even when the so called urbanisation is gleaming at us from all directions, no girl in India is free to completely decide her life.She is someone's daughter, sister, wife or mother to someone all her life. That is necessary, but is that all? Doesn't life hold anything beyond that? Education alone is not sufficient, a determined mind, willing to balance family and dreams at the same time is what is necessary.

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